What is Gatherings Social Club?

Gatherings Social Club is a members-based community designed for individuals 40 and older who want genuine connections and meaningful experiences. Through curated social events—from intimate dinners to adventurous outings—we help turn strangers into friends.

Who is Gatherings for?

Gatherings is for individuals 40+ who value connection, conversation, and community. Most of our members are professionals, creatives, and philanthropists who enjoy elevated social experiences in a relaxed, welcoming atmosphere.

Where is Gatherings based?

We are located in the Hamptons. Most of our events take place in and around the east end of Long Island, offering beautiful backdrops for unforgettable moments.

What types of events do you host?

Our events range from curated dinners and cocktail soirées to art openings, mahjong nights, wine tastings, and outdoor adventures. Each event is designed to encourage mingling, laughter, and organic connection.

Do I need to be a member to attend?

Some events are open to non-members on a limited basis, but membership grants priority access, exclusive invites, and the full benefits of being part of our community.

How do I become a member?

Simply fill out our membership inquiry form on the website. Once approved, you’ll receive a welcome email and a weekly Top 3 Things to Do in the Hamptons and get access to our private calendar of upcoming gatherings.

What’s included with membership?

Membership includes access to exclusive events, early-bird ticketing, concierge recommendations for local happenings, and invitations to member-only experiences. It’s not just about events—it’s about connection.

 Is there a dress code for events?

Most of our events are casual chic, but we’ll always include the suggested dress code with each event invitation so you’ll know what to expect.

Can I come alone to events?

Absolutely. Many of our members attend solo—it’s one of the best ways to meet new people. Our gatherings are specifically designed to make everyone feel welcome and included.

Are events hosted year-round?

Yes! While the summer season is particularly lively, we host thoughtfully planned gatherings throughout the year to keep the community connected and engaged.

I don’t live in the Hamptons full time. Can I still join?

Yes. Many of our members split their time between the city and the Hamptons. You’re welcome to join and attend events whenever you're in town.

How do I find out about upcoming events?

Members receive a monthly email with upcoming gatherings, our website's events tab, and access to our members-only calendar and text reminders for select events.

Can I bring a guest?

Yes, members can typically bring a guest to events unless otherwise noted. We love welcoming new faces and growing our community.

Is Gatherings a dating club?

No, Gatherings is not a dating club—it’s a social club. While connections of all kinds happen naturally, our focus is on friendship, shared experiences, and meaningful conversation.